Overcoming your Disbelief

I am sure that you have heard the expression that success is a habit. Well it is accurate. Some of us were fortunate enough to learn the habit as we grew up, some of us learned it but only in certain areas of our live, and some of us did not get the information we needed to thrive and as a result success does not seem possible. But success, in whatever way you see it, does not need to be elusive anymore. With the right information and the right support, you can have the live you have most deeply wanted.

Steps to take to counteract a habit of disbelief:

• Dream: Set aside a half hour and imagine what things would be like were they exactly how you wanted to them to be. Write this down and reread it daily to help keep you on track.
• Get Help: Find someone who has figured out how to do what you most want to do and ask for his or her help with developing your plan.
• Take another look: Look at you life. Chances are there are many examples of how you proved your inner critic wrong. Not only does this prove that you can do it again but it also provides clues on how you can break through your own perceived boundaries.

If we are really mired in our disbelief that we can have what it is that we most deeply want then these suggestions can appear simplistic. If this is you, don’t let your disbelief win here as well. Give these suggestions a try!

It is also always possible that a person might be dealing with depression as well as a general sense of disbelief about their deepest wants and desires. If you have been feeling hopeless consitently for a long period of time, you might benefit from getting an assessment from a health care professional.

Introduction

I am writing this blog for the people who are yearning for their souls to dance. I am writing for the people who feel the weight of their lives and their choices and in some fundamental way are concerned that this might be all that there is. I am starting this at a time when many people’s notions of security have been challenged, when the outlook that was once graciously positive is becoming ungraciously bleak. A time when many people’s incomes are threatened or have been lost, when it is becoming evident to more and more of us that what we have been doing up to now is no longer working. Many of us cannot continue on blindly and so there are challenges –challenges to open our eyes.

But, I do not write from a place of pessimism or of spiritual tyranny. I do not believe in tales of Armageddon –only tales of healing. However, from the perspective that there is healing, there is also sickness. And each and every one of us has experienced this sickness in some way. So, I am writing from a place of inspiration and love. I am hoping that my words will carry these messages through all of your resistances and into your depths and that once there they will reweave the splits that have become intrinsic to our experiences.

I offer my words and this space as a bridge connecting you to what your soul is reaching for. I will offer, tools, thoughts, and techniques for helping you along in your growth. I believe that you know what to do. I believe you know what is right for you and if and what type of healing you would like to see in your life. I offer my self in service of this healing, your healing, and our healing.